Two by Two: Lessons for Couples Living and Working
Together
The Toronto Sun (August 18, 1996)
by Sandy Naiman
Couples sharing careers and working together, their emotional lives
and economic fates intertwined, put marriage to the acid test. Could
you do it?
"With 47% of Canadian small businesses owned and operated
by couples and with the number of small businesses doubling every
three years, this is a trend on the rise and a lot of people are
going to be doing it," says Vancouver-based business management
consultant Annette O'Shea-Roche.
We asked five successful fully-integrated couples what
lessons they've learned about marriage and the special art of living
together and working together.
Since the rules for good business partnerships and good
marriages are the same, says O'Shea-Roche, whose husband has been
her business partner for eight years, they may also resonate for
more traditional couples.
"A business partnership is fatally flawed without mutual
respect and mutual responsibility," she says. "In a successful marriage,
a woman's role is not more or less important than a man's. And in
parenting, one parent can't accept all responsibility if a child
is having problems. Nor can parents effectively parent without respecting
each other's decisions about how their children are raised."
Farah and Martin Perelmuter, both 26, seem to be stretching
togetherness to its limits and loving it. Shortly before they married
last June, she was an advertising account executive and he was a
corporate lawyer on the rise, working such long hours they had trouble
finding time to spend together.
So, they left their careers to launch Speakers' Spotlight,
an exclusive agency to promote public speakers, a decision that
followed a year of careful research, planning and saving.
"It was Farah's idea," says Martin, sitting at their dining
room table, 12 feet from the tiny office they share.
"To hire a lawyer would be too expensive, so I married
one," she quips. "Now we spend 24 hours a day together, but we bring
different things to our relationship."
So far they've learned "you can't put your work away entirely
if you're married to your business partner," says Martin. "So if
you want a 9-5 job, this isn't the way to get it."
Farah adds, "We're not making the money we made before,
but we're so much happier. That's what's important to us."
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By Angela Trimmer
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By Kelly Gadzala
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By Libby Znaimer
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By Cathy Watters
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By Deena Waisberg
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By Sasha Nagy
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By Kevin Craig
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By Wallace Immen
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by Martin Perelmuter, LL B.
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by Martin Perelmuter, LL B.
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by
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by Sheldon Kirshner
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by Michelle Simick
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on Success
by Amy Harder
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by E.T. (Mitch) Lenko
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by Jeff Brooke
The National Post (Monday, December 21, 1998)
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by Laura Fowlie
The Western Alumni Magazine (September, 1998)
"Well Spoken",
by Jeff Brooke
The Toronto Star (May 25, 1998)
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by Michael Schultz
Association - Canada's Association Management Magazine
(December/January, 1997/1998)
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The Meeting Professional (December, 1997)
"Beyond Boundaries: Speaking Across Cultural Boundaries",
by Martin Perelmuter
The Financial Post Magazine (January, 1997)
"Power Talks",
by John Greenwood
The Toronto Sun (August 18, 1996)
"Two by Two: Lessons for Couples Living and Working
Together",
by Sandy Naiman
Association Magazine (June/July, 1996)
"Helpful Hints on Booking a Speaker",
by Farah Perelmuter
The Toronto Star (November 27, 1995)
"'Canadian' the New Word in Public Speaking",
by Oscar Rojo
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